Separation Anxiety Training

Specialized & Remote Training

Is this program for me?

“My dog is fine the moment I am home but falls apart the second I leave

I haven’t left the house in months because I can’t bear to hear him cry.”

“I’ve tried everything I’ve read online, and nothing seems to work.”

“I feel like I’m failing my dog, no matter what I try.”

“I’ve stopped making plans because I can’t ask anyone to deal with the barking.”

“Every time I close the door, the guilt hits me before I even get in the car.”

boxer under the table afraid and anxious

“I just want to know: does this actually get better?”
Yes, it can get better. And no, Separation Anxiety is not the guardian’s fault

Is this really separation anxiety?

Not sure if this is separation anxiety, or if your dog is just still settling in? It’s a fair question, and a common one.

True separation anxiety isn’t about spite, stubbornness, or your dog “getting back at you.” It’s panic. Your dog isn’t misbehaving when you leave, they’re genuinely afraid of being left alone, even in their own home. Because the fear comes from your departure. That distinction matters, because it changes what actually helps.

It’s also normal for a newly adopted dog, or one who just went through a big change, to need time to adjust. Some unsettled behavior in the first few weeks is expected and often improves on its own with routine and patience. If it’s been going on for months, seems to be getting worse instead of better, or your dog shows real panic (not just mild whining), that’s usually a sign it’s worth getting support.

Either way, you don’t have to figure out which one it is on your own.

Common signs of separation anxiety in dogs

Every dog shows it differently, but the most common signs include:

  • Barking, whining, or howling that starts shortly after you leave
  • Destructive behavior: chewing doors, furniture, or window sills, often near exits
  • Pacing, drooling, or panting, even when it’s not hot
  • Accidents in the house, even in a fully house-trained dog
  • Attempts to escape crates, rooms, or the house itself
  • Refusing to eat or settle while you’re gone, even with toys or treats available

Some dogs show it the moment you pick up your keys. Others seem fine for a while, then spiral after you’ve been gone longer than they can handle. If any of this sounds familiar, an initial assessment is the best way to understand exactly what’s going on with your dog specifically, not just what’s “normal” in general.

boston terrier sleeping no anxiety

Separation anxiety doesn’t just affect the dog.

It affects your whole life: the trips you stop taking, the friends you stop seeing, the guilt every time you close the front door and the fear of what your dog might do when you leave the house. I have worked with owners who hadn’t left their house in months because of it.

Through remote training and a protocol built around your specific dog, we work side by side, in small steps your dog can actually handle, until being alone stops feeling like a crisis.

And yes, it does get better. Most families start seeing real change within the first few weeks. And the goal isn’t just a calmer dog. It’s you getting your life back too, in whatever language works best for you: sessions are available in Spanish, English, Portuguese, and Italian.

The idea is that our training never backfires into more fear.

As a certified separation anxiety trainer, I never push your dog past what they can handle. For that, I work using gradual increases and build tolerance to being alone in small, manageable steps and always checking up with your dog to make sure they are fine.

Each plan starts with an initial consultation, followed by a daily training routine built around your dog specifically, with video and data analysis and weekly check-ins to track real progress. Does it get better? Yes, it does! Most families start noticing calmer, quieter, more relaxed dogs within the first few weeks, and just as importantly, more freedom and less guilt for you.

Why It Works

✔️ Systematic desensitization

✔️ Always under threshold

✔️ Emotional resilience

✔️ Science-backed

What’s Included

✔️ Initial consultation

✔️ Daily training plans

✔️ Video & data analysis

✔️ Weekly 1:1 meetings

Results You Can Expect

✔️ Calmer alone-time

✔️ Reduced vocalization

✔️ Improved quality of life

✔️ Confidence & relief


Step 1: Discovery Call

A 30-minute conversation to discuss your dog’s history and how our remote support can help your family.

Step 2: Initial Assessment

A live observation session where we determine exactly how long your dog is comfortable being alone.

Step 3: Custom Protocol

We design a step-by-step plan tailored specifically to your dog’s progress and emotional comfort level.

Step 4: Daily Support

I update your training plan every day to ensure your dog always stays “under threshold” and stress-free.

Step 5: Weekly Meet-ups

We review your data and videos weekly to celebrate progress and ensure you feel fully supported.

100% Remote & Stress-Free: All sessions are conducted via Zoom. This allows your dog to stay comfortable at home, prevents triggers, and lets us observe their natural behavior in a real-world setting.


Invest in Your Freedom and Their Peace

I know how hard it is to deal with this alone, and I don’t want cost to be the reason you don’t get help. If money is tight, reach out. We’ll figure something out together.

Initial Consultation — €90: A one-on-one session to assess your dog’s specific triggers and history, and outline a training plan built around them. If you go on to book the 4-week package, the €90 is credited toward it.

4-Week Training Package — €650: Daily training plans, video and data analysis, and weekly check-ins to track progress. Need more time? Additional 4-week blocks are €450.

Single Separation Behavior Consultation €120: For dog guardians already working through their own training plan who want a second opinion, feel stuck, need help navigating a setback, or guidance beyond a generic protocol.


Unlocking Resilience Dr. Spaulding
Separation Anxiety Certificate of Expertise
IAABC CDBC certification
Fear Free Certified Badge
Certificate of Completion Animal Emotions

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Category: General FAQ

I will never say no but it will depend on the type of behavior issues and my knowledge at the time, but I will certainly be honest and won’t waste your time if I can’t. Otherwise, I will commit to helping you and your dog overcome any challenges. For instance, excessive barking, destructive chewing, aggression (towards people or other dogs), leash pulling and difficult walks, socialization challenges are some areas I can help with. Every dog is different, so we take the time to figure out what’s causing the behavior and find long-term solutions, not just quick fixes.

Training and medication aren’t either/or, they often work best together. I’m not a veterinarian and can’t prescribe medication, but I can help you recognize when a vet or veterinary behaviorist consult may be worth exploring alongside training.

Category: General FAQ

Depending on the area, in-person can be possible. Otherwise, our services can also be 100% remote, which means we can help dogs and owners anywhere in the world!

Category: General FAQ

It’s easy! First, book a free 15-minute intro call to talk about your dog’s needs. From there, we offer different packages to suit you and your dog’s needs.

Category: General FAQ

We offer remote consultations in Spanish, Portuguese, English, and Italian so we can help you no matter where you are and what language you speak! Our sessions are designed to be flexible and supportive. If you’re curious, you can book a free 15-minute chat to see if we’re a good fit.

Yes, when there’s a clear plan in place. Part of the initial assessment is understanding exactly what happened and building safety measures, like management strategies, muzzle training if needed, around that specific history.

Category: General FAQ

At Fluent Fido, we help you better understand and communicate with your dog. Our services include:

Behavioral consultations to address issues like barking, aggression, and anxiety.

Positive reinforcement training tailored to your dog’s unique needs.

Guidance on body language so you can “speak dog” more fluently.

A holistic approach that considers your dog’s physical and emotional well-being.

Category: General FAQ

We focus on positive reinforcement and stress-free methods— that means no punishments, no harsh corrections and no aversive methods of any kind. Many people tell me this method takes too long but you need to look at it like you would changing a habit like exercising or quit smoking. This takes time and so does training to help your dog improve their emotional regulation. How? well, by rewarding good behavior, providing enrichment, and helping you create a safe and happy space for your dog. Our goal is to build a strong, trusting bond between you and your pup